- You don’t know your value
A lot of women chase bad boys who treat them badly. Some even date the unavailable ones, knowing quite well that they do not have a future with these men.
If you find yourself in any of these situations, babe you do not know your value. You probably feel that “this is the best I can do?”, or “where will I find a man who loves me like this individual?” What you don't understand is no man will respect a woman who allows herself to be treated so bad. So learn to respect yourself and know your worth.
- You try to change him
Men find this annoying, women trying to change them. You turning him into your latest project.
You criticizing the way he dresses or talks for example. Un-requested suggestions are usually unwelcomed and they insulting and emasculating.
If you don't agree, just imagine it was the other way round.
- Being self-centred
A number of women stay in relationships because of what they can get from their partners materially. They do not appreciate what their partners do for them. They feel like they are owed something. Women like this are called gold-diggers. Just imagine if it was the other way round.
- Not being a caregiver
Some women don't know how to take care of their men. Men protect and provide, so they naturally expect their women to take care of them .
- Being overly dramatic
Don't get me wrong women are naturally dramatic, but we have to understand that men are simple creatures. So if you are worked up constantly this is going drive him crazy. He shouldn’t be spending his time with you trying to understand why you are so upset. If you think you are seeking his attention, you are most like pushing him away.
- Tying him down too soon
It's like when a guy starts to show interest in a girl, she already thinks they are in a relationship. Aunty calm down, don't seem so desperate. Timing is everything.
- “I need a man that completes me”
It is your job to complete yourself, not a man’s. Before you get into a relationship, discover yourself, spent time doing some personal development. This will help you to know how to elegantly, effectively and efficiently connect with another human being.
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