Relationships
have many different sides to them. One thing we often forget is that being
silly isn’t childish, it’s actually a great way to de-stress, explore your
sense of humor, and deepen your relationship while not taking yourself (or
life) too seriously. This will stretch you both in ways you hadn’t considered
and open up opportunities to grow closer and more intimate. After all, there’s no
one we’d rather laugh and have fun with than our girlfriend (aka best friend).
DOING
THINGS WITH HER
1
Ask funny questions. Not only will they make her
laugh but they will make her think at the same time, and that is something all
girls love: stimulating their funny bone and their mind. You don’t have to
limit your imagination; be true to your own warped sense of humor and viewpoint
because that’s really the whole point. Being yourself in a fun and funny way –
there’s nothing sexier than that. Some examples could be:[1]
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What would your superpower choice be?
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If you could only wear one color for the rest of your life, what
would be it?
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if you could be any animal for a day, which would you choose?
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You can beam one person to live like an Inuit in the North Pole
never to be seen by society again. Who is it?
·
What would be the hardest food to give up?
2
Go to the park. Swing on the swings, slide
on the slide, climb the jungle gym, play king of the hill, and just let it all
hang out. There’s nothing more fun than getting in touch with your inner child.
3
Narrate your scene. When you’re in the room
together narrate what’s happening, what you’re thinking, what she’s thinking,
and make it different genres: drama, noir, romcom, detective/thriller, action
movie, or superhero movie. She can join in and you can switch narrators.
4
Head out in your pajamas. Have a little quality time
at the diner, coffee shop, shopping, or doing just about anything while in your
PJ’s. You can’t help but feel a little silly and have a little fun.[2]
5
Pretend you’re from somewhere else. Can you
do a Scottish accent? English? Hindu? Even if you’re not good at it you’ll both
have a lot of fun creating new identities and speaking in a foreign accent.
6
Play truth or dare. Get old school by bringing
back this game from your childhood. Just make sure you both agree to keep the
dares safe and legal because it’s no fun going from silly to incarcerated or
hospitalized.
7
Feed her while she’s blindfolded. Mix in an
assortment of hot and cold, sweet and savory, spicy and mild. Chocolate is
usually a must, and it’s a great idea to touch her lips with something cold
then switch it out with something hot. Make sure it’s not too hot as you don’t
want to burn her tongue.
DOING
THINGS TO HER
1
Give her a cute nickname. The best ones are nicknames
that mean something to you both that create or reinforce an inside joke between
the two of you. The best part is, it doesn’t have to be the same one all the
time. You can continually change it to fit the situation or to make light of
something fun or funny either of you have done.
2
Tickle her. This is a standard, go-to
move. Nothing stirs up the good kind of trouble like tickling. There are too
many areas for her to hide them all and besides, you should know where they are
anyway.
3
Wrestle her. Just like when you were
little kids, it’s fun to wrestle with someone you care about or love. It’s even
better when it’s done in surprise, sort of like a surprise attack of fun. If
you do wrestle remember one key strategy: it’s okay to “cheat” once you get
going.
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”Cheating” is often tickling or some other fun trick that gives
you the advantage.
4
Attack with pillows. It’s a well-known fact in
movies and on television that girls love a good pillow fight. In fact, it’s so
popular that it has it’s own day now. So start your own romantic comedy with a
stealthy surprise pillow attack.
5
Act as if all she says is too complex for your small brain. Be
astounded, amazed, confused, perplexed, and blown away by her continual
brilliance.
6
Wear her clothes. Pick out something that you
can fit into (or not fit into?) and stroll through the house as if that’s what
you’re wearing today. If you have the courage to do so, head to the coffee shop
wearing her clothes.
7
Be her medieval attendant. Call her m’lady and speak
in reverent language and tones. Don’t let her do anything for herself for doing
things for herself is above her station. Wax poetic, be her court jester, and
fulfill her every whim.
8
Pull out of a kiss. Look deeply in her eyes,
move in for the kiss…then say, “Nah,” and walk away. More likely than not
you’ll have to run away because that will definitely get a big response.
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Parlay this into the chase around the house. Run, feint, and
flee and keep her chasing you because there’s nothing better than letting her
catch you.
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